You're not autistic. You're don't have chronic fatigue. You're just lazy. Real talk. There is no shame in being truthful. I can tell you many people claiming to be autistic on the internet are just lazy retards doing nothing but coping for their own personal failures by putting all the blame on some mental ailment.
based. I used to think I had chronic fatigue when I was a dumb teen. sometimes i wonder if im aspie or something but then I remember the irl interactions i had with literal high functioning autists and realize i'm being dramatic www they really have no clue.
oh and you forgot to mention adhd
I dislike labels of mental health disorders despite having collected a handful and honestly I do not get the point of your post as everything is fucked for me I try but clearly I must be retarded as I cnanot concentreate enough to read etc
Fuck! Gaslighted again. I bet you think you're being really profound, OP. A lot of people are actually mental, and when you put two of them together to produce a child... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Peckham_Experiment#Closure
But hey, you're not being entirely honest yourself either - talking down to NEETs helps a lot of people to feel just a bit less pathetic than they really are.
I'm assuming you're trying to help and if I'm right then that's very kind of you but you need to remember who you're talking to here. If it was as easy for neets to just pull themselves up by their bootstraps at any moment then they probably would have done so already at some point sooner in their lives. It might be easy for you to say that it worked for you, for you to prove where your efforts got you, and to say that if it worked for you then it can work for others, but you're just not putting in as much thought into this as you should if actually helping anybody is truly your goal. "Just do it" is forgetting that life is complicated and has a lot of problems for people sometimes which needs a lot of solutions.
Another thing I feel is important for anybody wanting to give advice is that there is a line between helping and just venting frustrations or pretending to know someone better than they know themselves. Crossing that line requires giving constructive advice and solid solutions. If you're not going to give that, for whatever reason you may have, then you're really just stroking your own ego. Regardless of whether it's your intention it's still the outcome.
I would like to hope your heart is in the right place but you're not giving me that impression by placing blame on anons for not meeting your or society's standards. Life is complicated and harder for certain people than others. Neets tend to have very unfortunate lives with many obstacles for them to overcome before they can get wherever they want to be. Many people's lives are very different. If you want to truly help anyone over the internet then you can sit down and chat with them individually through their problems but insults help nobody but yourself and if that's your goal then you should probably leave this board and go somewhere else where you can insult people much more frequently.
A lot of people on imageboards are not playing with a full deck of cards. It's natural to be optimistic and point out the individuals who weren't held back by that because of their luck or sheer will, but overprovisioned people still underperform all the time e.g. former child prodigies. Very few people live up to their potential, and even that sperg working in Silicon Valley can barely pull it together enough to have a normal relationship.
I live in Texas and have been without power since Monday. This is fucking misery.
Wow you're such a redpilled guy, anon. Your friends must love listening to you when you go all sam-hyde-wannabe on them. Hate to break it to you anon but you're not as cool as you think you are on the internet and there's only few exceptional neets who aren't aware of their situation. We know we are just being lazy. But to overcome it is very challenging in and of itself. I've been living like this for 6 years, I know I'm just being lazy. I've lost count of how many times I have tried to fix it. You can't just say "you're being lazy go outside start lifting lol" and expect us to get motivated and fix ourselves. I hope you're just an underaged kid who doesn't know shit otherwise I'll feel really bad for you.
A lot of people lie about or exaggerate their life situation on imageboards for pity points. I used do such things and have seen it done many times. You cannot take everything they say online as the full truth. People seem to love wallowing in self-pity.
I was a neet for 6 years after graduating from High school. I was lazy fucking idiot. "Just do it" was literally what I did. Although it was also the pressure from my unsustainable lifestyle that pushed me away from neetdom. After leaving neetdom I realize that I'm not that mentally ill as I've previously thought. I'm actually quite mediocre but still somewhat normal. It was because of years of self-abuse and self-hate that made me think I'm mentally ill when in reality I'm really not.
I'm not trying to be cool. I've been browsing imageboards since 2012 and I've interacted with many neets because I was a neet as well. Many of them all liked to fully blame "autism" or "chornic fatigue" or some other mental ailment for their failures. I used to see it from their point of view and agreed with them. I've seen now another point of view and have realized that they many if not all are just obscenely lazy as was I during that time.
ok how do i stop being lazy then
Wallowing in the self-pity does not automatically make you a liar; it makes you repetitive when it comes to failure. You used to see it from their point of view because it was advantageous for you to do so. Now that you are no longer a NEET, you have forgotten what it is to be one. NEETdom is not for everyone. I've talked to very different NEETs over the years, and you don't want to ever talk to those too forthcoming with their story. You conveniently omit that many are abused and hated for years by others for not being conformist enough. Some NEETs suffer burnout upon realization that they have been poorly used as societal pawns. I would not be surprised if NEETs are more sensitive to suffering.
To be able to change, you have to not only want to but also believe that meaningful change is possible for you. So that means undoing learned helplessness. Except the effort to maintain a barely normal quality of life is not worth it to many. It doesn't matter where you start out in life, only where you end up.
The NEET lifestyle is a luxury. If your parents are sympathetic enough that they don't kick you out for being a NEET then you need to reevaluate your "depression". Your family very likely still loves you and want to see you succeed. I've met fucking homeless people who are still optimistic about their lives compared to these "I'm depressed living with my middle class family in the suburbs" NEETs. It's fucking hilarious when you realize how easy most NEETs have it in life especially if they are on government welfare and still live with their parents. I've seen NEETs write up about how to fake a mental illness in order to get Government welfare. These people aren't lazy when it comes to lying in order to get what they want.
It's hilarious when you see the "undepressed" side of NEETs. They appear to be like clever rats in their thinking. Like how can I trick the government welfare? How can I guilt-trip my parents? etc.
Start out by helping around the house. Help your parents out with the chores. Get a hobby like gardening, bicycling, and whatnot. Then try to get a job. That's basically what I did.
I wish you were right OP I do not even blame you for thinking everyone is larping online the whole zoomer tendy mental health culture is gay as fuck but some of us are indeed mentally ill in severe ways.
As if most parents don't guilt-trip their kids first. People have children for very selfish reasons, and they never reevaluate that.
That's true. It depends on the relationship someone has with their parents. Mine let me live here rent free without much pressure and I'm grateful for that.
It shows up in the search engine. In fact I have found this place multiple times by accident.
Don't judge us, many NEETs have had very rough lives that were filled with constant rejection and abuse from others for being different. I would say a lot of us suffer from untreated PTSD due to being mistreated so much by society.
Oh shit nigger, am i supposed to give a fuck if I'm lazy? You really think an anon posting on imageboards for over a decade cares what you or any other failed normalfag says? You seem to be laboring under the mistaken impression that NEETs are need or want you as a savior to bring them back to the normalfag lifestyle. I can assure you, anyone who has been a NEET for long enough neither wants to be part of that nor has been part of it in the first place. While I will work and have done so before, it is only out of pure practical necessity. When I can afford to NEET, I do it without any regret, and I don't really care how I was able to do it. I don't feel obligated to act in the interests or ideals of other people, and whether that's right or wrong it isn't going to change. You know you're not the first right? You know we've read the same tired spiel hundreds, maybe thousands of times right? Did you think you were special because you watched some whitepill video by neo-/pol/? The first time you get insulted as a NEET, it's a tragedy. The millionth time, it's just a statistic. I suggest you stop wasting your own time trying to move an unwilling and uncaring group.
This. Just found this place from looking up what happened to wiz ham and I think I found out about wizchan from 4chan and 4chan from Reddit and Reddit from etc. it’s not special, I’m just a compulsive internet user.
Lazy is not an inaccurate way to describe it though there really isn't anything to do. I have worked before and it really isn't something worth overcoming your laziness for. I'll probably kill myself or get kicked out of the house but I'll prefer that to pushing the rock up the hill. Maybe there is a short circuit in my brain that fuck up my value system. Yes I am lazy but why should I not be?
I often come to find myself feeling as if this is the case. I had a lot of traumatic experiences that continously happened in a row for a few years before I completely shut myself in and have never quite broken free of that. I completely lost trust and faith in every single person I have ever known. Being pratically in permanent isolation ever since.
omg im such a schizoid personality disorder xdddd
sometimes i wonder if everyone's a woman
if you spent half the time you do feeling sorry about yourself on something just a tad-bit productive you'd find yourself in the sun, young NEET of descension
it really does sound you're a NEET from having the mental illness I just invented call perpetual looping self pity disorder also called PLSP why not. Weapons are your answer. Either stab yourself or someone else. If you truly cannot fathom the point here, you might also have permanent cuck disorder.
>undoing learned helplessness
>but then momy no bring tender and neetbux bringer wont feel bad enuf for give buckcheck =(
You really are the scourn ruining it for the ones that have actual problems, because they put us in your shoes and shirts as we walk in to get help. Sincere fuck yous. I'm overcoming this, no thanks to pathetic leeches (honestly at least leeches could be used medicinally so I felt like calling you something worse.)
Honestly your leeching is even passed on to your posts here, it must be your identity. I can see how it'd be so hard to let go :D
>your bla bla i believe crap like this loves you and stuff and they want to see you succeed
yeah succeed on their terms. success that pays them back for all their virtuous extension of their hands, all their efforts of 'niceness' be paid back in full, at the very least. You're actually just a complete normieburger, shut the fuck up. You were never NEET, not even lazy. Just slothful. Lazy is smart. Sloth is a principle.
>Start out by helping around the house. Help your parents out with the chores.
Shut up you wageslave drone, that never ends. Ever.
nothing wrong with war if they shot first.
THEY NOT MENTAL ILL ME AM!
Trust me, your jewburger is as easily dismantled as theirs.
NO I HAD CHILDREN BECAUSE I WANTED TO HELP SOCIETY SO I WAS BEING ALTRUISTIC STOP BEING SO FUCKING UNGRATEFUL
based, when those are the terms, you can come out the cave whenever. pressure just breaks.
Everyone has actual problems, you sewerpajeet.
There's no such thing as "pity points" on imageboards lmfao. Most people will make themselves look as good as possible even if they're just competing with other NEETs.
you wanted to help society by putting more meat in the worthless meat grinder known as modern day civilization? you realize the best case scenario for these kids of yours is they'll just spend their entire life making some asshat who would kill us all for an extra five bucks if it was legal, even richer than his already exorbitant wealth, right? and then they'll have kids that do the same thing, telling themselves exactly what you did. that their kids will make society better.. and then the cycle will just continue and the buck will be passed until the sun explodes or the next ice age or whatever kills humanity.
honestly I don't even know why I'm typing all this when it's clear you came here with your mind already made up, not to have any real discussion, but maybe someone who's actually on the fence about one thing or another will see it and actually think about what I said
actually upon further review I can't tell if the person I just responded to was being sarcastic against parents who say that kind of thing or if they're being serious and it's why they did/will have children
I swear people like these are like the agents from the matrix, there's always one around the corner and it's never ending, willing to uphold society and the systems that keep people as obedient workers and turn anyone they see as out of line in society such as NEETs by gaslighting them to think their
miserable failures for not living up to theirs or society's standards without questioning the system itself.
There's always going to be waves of normies and improvbruhs infesting NEET spaces with their one size fits all advice and their propaganda that says "NEETS ARE BADDD" and "WORK IS GOOD FOR YOU" that it's just fucking pointless to argue with them anymore.
If people like you are just gonna be calling us lazy, without trying to understand NEETs and the multitude of reasons of why people choose or become NEETs, then I think you should just give up and go back to living your normie accepted lifestyle and leave us the fuck alone.
Because no matter how many times people like you insult and harass us for our views and lifestyles, we're not gonna change and we'll never change.
This seems a little immature and i do not think it is bad people take pride in a job it is not as if all us NEETs are working on our hobbies and satisfied. We are usually miserable and not better than people who work.
kist fuck life it seems to be the issue and does not care if you work or NEET