2 days ago
about 4 years ago
Yes, i will admit it, i am a sex haver. No I am not proud of it, and no it is not all it is cracked up to be. on one hand i wish i was still a virgin but on the other i feel im more grounded now and dont idolize it the way most every one does
Same, I've had sex before, but it was multiple times with someone I didn't love and it was so disappointing that I just pretend it didn't even happen. I tell all my neet friends that I'm a virgin tho, both to avoid drama, and also because I genuinely believe that I haven't had The Real Sex™
I can still smell her perfume in my mind, I still can't stop myself from thinking about her when i fap.
I've since devolved into such a failure that I'll probably never have sex again and I'll have to live with the constant craving
I had sex over ten years ago. I believe I've reverted into virginity, as being a middle-aged man, it's next to impossible for me to find a woman that is even remotely interested in me.
My sextimes are over forever.
It generally accepted about not having sex after so many years does in fact revert one back to virginity? I'm kind of interested in a discussion based around that.
I reverted into virginity by now.
I mean *technically* you can not regain virginity, but you can mentally revert to that. So much has changed in the last ten years, approaching a woman now and ten years ago, is vastly different. Not only that, but I also got older. And women that are interested got older, too… I can't acts as if I'm a 20-something. I can't even go to the same places 20-somethings mingle. Not even online. Literally no idea where to look, what to say, etc. And tbh. I don't *really* have interested in it anymore.
Are you me? This is practically describing my current situation online and IRL. I'm just a lost concept it seems.
a year ago
I am the same but I do not lie I just try to avoid telling others I am a non virgin I have never made love.
Isn't it weird how some of us non vrgins regret having sex and wish we were virgin the tables are turned online.
I am embaressed of being a non virgin I wish I never did anything it does not even feel good bros
Just how I feel. No idea how to talk to a girl or even have sex with one after over ten years of not having talked to one.
Once drunk at a bar on halloween night 3-4 years ago. I still think about her sometimes when I fap. God she was hot but the sex we had was incredibly awkward. I couldnt even finish due to death grip. It ended with
>hey can you get out of my room im gonna throw up
>go out of room and think "wait shouldnt she be the one to go outside and vomit"
>come back into her room, shes past out
>whip the condom across the room and just sort of lay down next to her, passing out
early march 2020 i think, hadn't seen gf in person after that, broke up around June 2020
i get that. i have had sex, but only with escorts. im not a virgin but i still feel like one as ive never done it without paying. ive also never done it without a condom. last time was about 2 years. i would go more but as a neet it costs too much.
I'm 27 and never had either anon. Don't let it get you down. There are lots of other things we can be proud of in life.
Never. 29 and KV
7 years ago
why do you ned to be proud of anything that is a trap.
Never but sometimes I want to, rarely
I guess it must be a biological need but even if I could have it (with help of the internet) I'm too afraid, I know I would be in danger somehow
I haven't had secs in my entire life